Your personal dating coach is here to help
Online dating overwhelming?
Feel you don’t get noticed or attract the wrong types?
Want More Dates?
Want Better Dates?
I can help. As a dating expert, I coach you on:
Feel you don’t get noticed or attract the wrong types?
Want More Dates?
Want Better Dates?
I can help. As a dating expert, I coach you on:
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• The best ways to meet people and spark their interest in you
• How to progress past the first date • How to choose the best dating sites/apps for YOU • Which profile photos to post to get a better response |
• How to look your best on a date What to say on a date (& NOT say!)
• How to turn a great first date into a second • How to decide if you want to have a second (or 3rd) date |
Work with me once or twice, or choose a weekly program as part of a customized package.
Start Getting the Quality Online Dates You’ve Dreamed of Getting
Millions of people use these sites every day and it’s easy to feel lost in the shuffle. It’s time you start standing out with an irresistible profile. Let your personality shine with all the right words--and images.
Start Getting the Quality Online Dates You’ve Dreamed of Getting
Millions of people use these sites every day and it’s easy to feel lost in the shuffle. It’s time you start standing out with an irresistible profile. Let your personality shine with all the right words--and images.
- Personalized tips for a winning profile included
- Follow-up on dates you’ve had
Navigate the Dating Scene with Confidence
Want more “right swipes” and better dates? As your dating coach, I help you invest in you.
I have helped people find lasting romantic connections for over two decades. My clients include:
Want more “right swipes” and better dates? As your dating coach, I help you invest in you.
I have helped people find lasting romantic connections for over two decades. My clients include:
- High achievers who are successful at work but want help fine-tuning their dating skills
- Divorced or widowed and new to the dating scene after long marriages
- Women and men looking for quality dates
- People who want a winning online profile that will lead to dates
- Busy professionals who don’t have time to waste on bad dates
In The News
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By Marissa Matozzo
Published May 9, 2025 
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By Adriana Diaz
Published Jan. 29, 2025 
Women are using the 6-6-6 dating rule to find the perfect man — but is it hurting their chance at finding love? By Adriana Diaz September 16, 2024 Click to See What Judith Says in the NY Post
Gen Z is ditching dating apps for old-fashioned matchmaking
By: Adriana Diaz
April 21, 2022 8:13am 
Majority of vegans will not even
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Inside the ‘disposable’ young
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Gen Z is ditching dating apps for old-fashioned matchmaking
By Adriana Diaz May 17, 2024 Click to See What Judith Says in the NY Post 
How Often Should You Text Someone You Just Started Dating?
Co-authored by Judith Gottesman, MSW and Hunter Rising Last Updated: April 6, 2022
Click to Read Articles
The Lost Art of Dating
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What Clients are saying:
It’s always very helpful speaking with you. You have such great insights!
— M.B.
SF Bay Area
I got married in my 20s & was widowed after 25 years of marriage. Judith was a huge help to me. She got me back out there. Her insights and date coaching made it easier to navigate the at times overwhelming dating world. I appreciate her invaluable encouragement and advice.
— Ron C.
Judith gives great advice and is a fantastic dating coach. She helped me ... and I saw positive results right away!
— Isaac S. in Brooklyn, NY
I had a dating coaching session with Judith a few weeks ago, and it was helpful! She gave me really good advice regarding how to make the dating process as successful as possible, ways to meet potential dates, and also reviewed my online profile and photos. Her feedback was very insightful and has already led to improvements in my dating experiences. She was clear and also encouraging. I hope to have another coaching session with her soon! I would highly recommend her.
— Kimberly S. in San Diego
My marriage ended and I found myself back in the dating world after 20 years. I sought advice from Judith and it was spot on. She helped me navigate which dates were successful and which wouldn't pan out. Judith got me to think about my happiness and what I was seeking in a mate. I was encouraged to make good decisions along the dating process.
Judith’s advice gave me confidence to venture into a scene that was very foreign to me. I’d encourage anyone to use her dating coach services, and, today I can say that I’m in a relationship and very happy. I’m glad I sought her professional help along the way.
— Scott Dunbar, 44, in San Francisco
I have used Judith's date coaching on and off for over two years. Whenever I am in-between relationships, I seek her input on my dating profile. I also have her advise me on women I am considering contacting. She even advises me on communicating with them, like when to email/text vs. call and when to meet. She is very insightful. I rely on her matchmaking skills to help me decide which women are more compatible with me and my type, and whether or not it’s worth a second date. Judith is an excellent dating coach.
— E.C., Los Angeles
It’s always very helpful speaking with you. You have such great insights!
— M.B.
SF Bay Area
I got married in my 20s & was widowed after 25 years of marriage. Judith was a huge help to me. She got me back out there. Her insights and date coaching made it easier to navigate the at times overwhelming dating world. I appreciate her invaluable encouragement and advice.
— Ron C.
Judith gives great advice and is a fantastic dating coach. She helped me ... and I saw positive results right away!
— Isaac S. in Brooklyn, NY
I had a dating coaching session with Judith a few weeks ago, and it was helpful! She gave me really good advice regarding how to make the dating process as successful as possible, ways to meet potential dates, and also reviewed my online profile and photos. Her feedback was very insightful and has already led to improvements in my dating experiences. She was clear and also encouraging. I hope to have another coaching session with her soon! I would highly recommend her.
— Kimberly S. in San Diego
My marriage ended and I found myself back in the dating world after 20 years. I sought advice from Judith and it was spot on. She helped me navigate which dates were successful and which wouldn't pan out. Judith got me to think about my happiness and what I was seeking in a mate. I was encouraged to make good decisions along the dating process.
Judith’s advice gave me confidence to venture into a scene that was very foreign to me. I’d encourage anyone to use her dating coach services, and, today I can say that I’m in a relationship and very happy. I’m glad I sought her professional help along the way.
— Scott Dunbar, 44, in San Francisco
I have used Judith's date coaching on and off for over two years. Whenever I am in-between relationships, I seek her input on my dating profile. I also have her advise me on women I am considering contacting. She even advises me on communicating with them, like when to email/text vs. call and when to meet. She is very insightful. I rely on her matchmaking skills to help me decide which women are more compatible with me and my type, and whether or not it’s worth a second date. Judith is an excellent dating coach.
— E.C., Los Angeles
About Your Dating Coach
Judith Gottesman, MSW
Judith Gottesman, MSW
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I am a dating coach and professional matchmaker with over 20 years experience helping people find love. I have advanced degrees with a background in psychology, so I get what makes people tick. I help clients gain confidence, be more selective about who they date, and do better on dates. Ask me anything! I am completely confidential and can help you with any concern, large or small.
My goal is to help you feel confident in how you relate and find quality people with whom you can find a romantic connection. Save time and heartache. Put my strategies to work and realize your dreams! |
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